The mysterious guy
When your flirting with a girl it's like playing a game of cards with her, both of you have secret hands and you throw cards one at a time back and forth. Like mentioned before you don't want to overthink about approaching a girl, but if you want to put yourself in a situation where you are stuck in the her mind do as written in this article.
When you talk to her always choose your next steps wisely, never give up way too much about yourself, always ask her questions and make her talk and when she's asking you, do reply short and never as detailed as you know you can reply. It would put her on the questionable spot and she will think 'why is he like that? He's a man of few words'. That's the is where you want to be because when your not in her presence she will think about you and her interest in you will increase dramatically. Her sub consciousness will make her want to see you more often. If you really want to "torment" her, say that you are busy when she wants too meet you then you will see a desperate side of her.
Beware that you can come off as a arrogant douchebag, when playing this kind of card. That's why I encourage you to find the balance, don't just completely 'ignore' her when she ask you something but act cool and make it all about her. You say one word and make her say thousands.
Just to make a short recap
- act mysterious not creepy
- encourage the conversation to be about her
- reply short but not monotone and way too boring
- never give too much of yourself, but don't maintain this, when you're getting further in the relationship this won't help you because you already surpassed the first or second level of your flirtatious relationship. Imagine if you kept doing so how weird wouldn't you look?
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