The Mysterious Guy

The mysterious guy

When your flirting with a girl it's like playing a game of cards with her, both of you have secret hands and you throw cards one at a time back and forth. Like mentioned before you don't want to overthink about approaching a girl, but if you want to put yourself in a situation where you are stuck in the her mind do as written in this article. 

When you talk to her always choose your next steps wisely, never give up way too much about yourself, always ask her questions and make her talk and when she's asking you, do reply short and never as detailed as you know you can reply. It would put her on the questionable spot and she will think 'why is he like that? He's a man of few words'. That's the is where you want to be because when your not in her presence she will think about you and her interest in you will increase dramatically. Her sub consciousness will make her want to see you more often. If you really want to "torment" her, say that you are busy when she wants too meet you then you will see a desperate side of her.

Beware that you can come off as a arrogant douchebag, when playing this kind of card. That's why I encourage you to find the balance, don't just completely 'ignore' her when she ask you something but act cool and make it all about her. You say one word and make her say thousands.

Just to make a short recap

- act mysterious not creepy

- encourage the conversation to be about her

- reply short but not monotone and way too boring

- never give too much of yourself, but don't maintain this, when you're getting further in the relationship this won't help you because you already surpassed the first or second level of your flirtatious relationship. Imagine if you kept doing so how weird wouldn't you look?

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8 Signs that she likes you

Do you want to know if the girl you like likes you back? Or you are curious about how to tell if a girl likes you? Keep reading the following content and the next time you meet the girl observe how the signs actually speaks truth.

1.     When she sees you she acts like she didn’t see you, but when you look away she will look at you.

2.     In an eye contact with her she will quickly look to her left/right or down. It’s a sub conscious thing if she does so. It’s a sign of her being nervous when you are around it also means that she is thinking about how she feels about you. (Read more in the section of “The eye game”)

3.     She will react if you talk to other females, she will give you the look that tells you that she isn’t pleased with it. In some cases she will even show you jealousy just if you’re talking to a guy, if that’s the case she really likes you. Just a reminder no matter what anyone says, a girl does not like a ‘player’ at all, they despise it they don’t want a guy who has been with 100 hundreds of women and showboats about its huge turnoff.

4.     If she is around her friends or other people she will talk loud or even laugh louder so you can hear her. It’s probably not to make you jealous but it’s her way to make her noticeable so you pay attention to her.

5.     She will play with her hair or constantly check up on her makeup, she will be aware of her appearance and she will make sure that she looks good when you’re around.

6.     If you’re having a conversation with her she will laugh at your jokes even though they are heard before or if they are corny. The best case is when she just laugh at the smallest things you say, but it’s not a positive thing if she is laughing at you then it would mean something else. The fact that you can make a woman laugh is a big thumbs up, it throws all the defences away.
             · In a conversation she will say your name often after a sentence
             · If she ask you questions she knows the answers for
 

7.     She will find a way to be close to you, wherever you are she will be. Not in a “stalkerish” way but she just wants to see you because she is interested. Whenever you’re not there she will be looking for you and actually spends some time thinking about where the hell you are.

8.     If anything be courageous and tell her directly how you feel about her, many waste their time thinking about how things could be, but the truth is you never know if you don’t try. 

Overcome the fear of approaching attractive girls

It’s completely normal to be nervous or having butterflies in your stomach when meeting a cute girl you find interesting. Most of the times you never get to have a conversation with her because you chicken out or you simply don’t have the courage to go talk to her. But don’t sweat yourself everyone has made that mistake but it doesn’t mean you have to repeat it. When you meet a girl no matter if it’s in a bar, club or even at school you need to have a specific mindset. Which means that you need to stop overanalysing situations, like getting rejected or over thinking about what you are going to say to her. You have to be bold and do things in other perspectives, a first step could be that you stop caring. Most importantly forget what other people thinks about you, show them that you have the courage to do what they cant.

We all are humans

Women are human beings not aliens from a different planet, they won’t bite and if they’re not showing interest in you, move to the next one simple as that. Act bold but at the same time find the balance, you should not be entirely careless just don’t get offended by stuck up women who rejects you, the moment you retaliate and go down to their level that’s when everything will escalate to the red zone. Don’t show that your upset because you got rejected, in a small period of time the word will spread out and you will be known as the biggest jackass from the whole entire evening.
Before going out learn to live by the mindset that you are going to end up with a woman no matter what. There are no women who are unreachable, take the situation like this, if they don’t want you it is their loss. 

3 simple changes to make you visible to females

We live in a modern society, which means many things has changed, we think and behave differently than men and women did just decades ago. The “outer” means more than the “inner” in that case I’m talking about appearance, it’s so crucial that it knocks out the notion about having a great personality. In many situations you never get to talk to the girl you’ve been checking out in the clubs or social meetings or whatsoever. That’s why you hear from PUA’s or basically from everyone that first impression does matter. So lets begin

1.     Teeth whitening every girl like a cute smile, smiling with the mouth closed just doesn’t show enough. It’s about showing confidence in your smile and it shows much about you. Smile and It will affect her too and make her smile as well. Most women rate their men by their teeth, some women are so vain that they get turned off by crooked teeth or if they are yellow and actually look unclean. If your teeth aren’t perfect like the male models you see in magazines, you don’t really rely on your smile.

If you think about it, your sub consciousness automatically says to you don’t put energy in your smile, because you think about what she will think. “Eww he has disgusting teeth”, “Omg his teeth are so crooked”. But I say to hell with it! If you have crooked teeth it doesn’t matter, you are as you are! The point is no matter what anyone says, the smile has a huge importance in getting a girl. So yes get your teeth whitened or just brush your teeth so they look clean of course, and use your smile it’s a big part of your charm.

      2.    Fitness! Your body means a lot you don’t even have an idea. Being fit and muscular is more attractive than being skinny or overweight, sorry to say. Women want a guy who’s in shape and actually can fit their t-shirts and pants. Begin to workout and do some exercises start slow and build your way up. I’m not saying that you have to overdo it and become Arnold Schwarzenegger or be ripped that your body reveal all the veins, but as a research tells us an ideal body that most women fancy is where Brad Pitt stars as Tyler Durden in “Fight Club”. A lean muscular body not to skinny and not a sense of fat in there. Your body tells a million things about your posture and if you stand upright and don’t hunch your back etc etc. Women look at that, they can tell if you body is such a secret and enclosed, it’s about opening up and stand up as the man you are.  

3.    Face wash! This is probably one of the most important steps, because your face is the first thing anyone notices.
Exfoliate your skin, again there’s a balance you don’t want to be all greasy or too dry but yes make it shine. Clean skin is a big plus, how you take care of yourself and maintain a good hygiene is great and other people notice that. You can get a cheap face wash or face scrub in a wellness store it doesn’t have to be expensive, if anything you could just wash your face with a neutral soap and cold water. If you got money to spend you could go to a spa and they’ll “fix you up” expensive but worth it. No girl wants a guy with a big zit on his cheek they keep focusing on it and remember you for it.

These steps are superficial things but then again keep in mind what I mentioned earlier, the way of thinking has changed. People look up to the Hollywood stars and want it. Make small changes and become visible. 

Introduction

Hey you! Welcome to my blog! I'm happy you found it, because it will change the perspective on how you view the art of dating, flirting and the most important topic love. Are you the guy who's curious and always wanted to find the girl of your dreams? You always wanted to be the guy who could approach any women that interest you? Or you’re in a relationship and it feels like you’re reached a roadblock? You don't know what to do or where to start? It's sounds so cliché, but you found the right place! So enjoy a cup of coffee and continue reading the contents and hopefully when your done reading you become the happy guy with the lucky girl.

The baby steps

I’m not here to judge you, and no one should even do so, but the whole so called “game” isn’t easy and it never was, so before you begin to do anything take a deep breath and take everything a notch down. 
Have you ever heard about the term: 
“An expert was once a beginner” or “A pro was once a noob” etc etc? 
Funny enough its true, Einstein wasn’t a genius immediately! He dedicated a lot of time to study and practise and eventually he became the world famous mastermind we all know to this day today. In that case it’s the same when coming to the game of love. You study and practise what’s offered in this blog. And again take it easy don’t judge yourself we are here to learn and succeed.